Monday, June 8, 2009

Birdland Diaries, Part 2


Still only two robin's eggs this morning. When I went to check on the nest, mama bird did a fly-by and almost took out one of my eyes. From about 5 feet away, but still. She was just as protective as I promised Sidamo she'd be, though I guess his version would be that she was just trying to feed me.

The second part of our bird excitement (I know, how much can one family handle??) came yesterday when I took down our new hanging baskets to give them a good soak. Look what I found inside one of them:





A tiny, perfect, downy little nest that made me want to shrink down to sparrow size and snuggle in. Well, today, after my robin's nest disappointment, I took down the baskets for their daily water, and look what's in there now!


I wonder what we've done to become such a hospitable home for birds. Maybe it's the two barking Great Danes, or the plethora of neighborhood cats who like to hang out on our front porch. Or maybe it's the two screaming kids who know little about boundaries, or the bright flash on my camera. Whatever it is, our porch is the place to be if you're feathered, flighted, and looking to build a family.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Birdland Diaries, Part 1

A few weeks ago, this little lady set up shop under the eaves of our front porch.


Not long after, we heard lots of little chirping and realized there were four little birdlets in there with her (that's a technical term. I know a lot about birds, as you'll learn as you read this post). Throughout the day, we would watch mama bird fly and come back with food to feed all the hungry little mouths, and we all, maybe with the exception of Nora, became much more aware of the not-so-secret life of birds as a result.

One afternoon Sidamo begged me to lift him up high so he could touch the nest. I had to explain why I couldn't (besides the lack of necessary strength). I told him that the mama bird would be upset if she thought someone was trying to hurt her babies. In characteristic conversation style, Sidamo asked, "Why?"

"Well," I said, "all mamas want to protect their babies."

"Why?"

"That's just what we do. What do you think your mama would do if she thought someone wanted to hurt you?"

"Hmm …" he pondered. "I guess you'd feed them."

Another afternoon as we were out on a walk, Sidamo and I stopped short as we saw a robin swoop down about 10 feet in front of us and snag a worm from the ground. We stood frozen and watched as the worm fought back with all its might—it clung to its little wormhole valiantly as it was stretched so taut I thought it would snap. Eventually the robin won out, and the worm was extracted, pecked, shaken, and overtaken. The bird swallowed the worm whole, shook around a little bit the way you'd expect someone to wriggle after eating a worm whole, and summarily pooped. The cycle of life, and digestion, right here in our very own neighborhood.

Back at our home, after a few weeks (or more, or less—ornithology is not an exact science, at least not the way we practice it) the baby birds flew the nest. I cried. Yes, I'm drawing parallels wherever I can find them. But mama robin kept coming back. Or maybe it was just someone who looked like mama robin. There's some debate amongst our experts about whether or not mama birds keep hanging around the nest after the kids skip town. I consulted Google for answers but was sidetracked by all sorts of other interesting information about robins. If any of you other aspiring bird experts out there have any information to refute this, keep it to yourselves:
  • Robins only lay one egg a day, and they lay their eggs later in the morning than other birds.
  • A robin's clutch (which I take to mean "litter") consists of four eggs. She'll keep laying eggs until she gets four. In fact, if you take eggs from her nest before she gets to number four, she'll keep laying one a day until she reaches the magic number. Not that any of us (save one particularly curious chap who thankfully can't reach) would try that.
  • The mama robin won't sit on her eggs until she has a full clutch, because she wants them to all hatch at the same time, and the baby birds don't start developing in their eggs until incubation starts.
What I didn't learn was whether robins lay eggs more than once in a season. Today we had a rare moment of empty nestedness, so I climbed up to see if I could peek inside.


I couldn't see in, so I enlisted the help of my camera (as evidenced by the photos). Do you see what I see in the one below? A teensy glimpse of that telltale bluish-greenish hue?


Here they are: Two precious little robin's eggs, just waiting for siblings three and four to come along so they can start growing together as a family:


And, for Greg's sake, that's where I'll stop drawing parallels between the robin's family and ours.

Aren't they beautiful? I hope to get back out there late tomorrow morning to see if egg number three has arrived. Because anything less than a three-egg omelet is hardly an omelet at all.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Sidamo's first bike

Yes, it's pink. Yes, it's sparkly. Yes, it's awesome.





Neighborhood Picnic



Have I mentioned how much I love my local moms' group? It has connected us with so many incredible families, and it has given me such a feeling of roots in this community. It's also a powerful group that has effected real change in schools, business, politics, and the economy in our neighborhood—a true testament to the power of moms to drive their communities.

Today was the third annual picnic for the moms' group, and somewhere around 750 people were in attendance. It was such fun.












Monday, May 25, 2009

New York (a.k.a. the George and Sidamo Show)


A few weeks ago we went to New York for the week (can you see the Statue of Liberty behind us? She's the little pillar a few inches behind and to the left of Sidamo's head). I had to go for Mindful Mama reasons, and Greg and the kids joined for a little vacation. We stayed with my sister Meaghan and her family in their incredible Chelsea apartment, and the kids had a ball.


Sidamo and George have finally realized that they can actually be friends instead of just competitors for toys. Either that or they've carefully calculated just how much more mischief they can accomplish if they join forces.


Just as proof that we did bring Nora, here's my one picture of her from the entire trip.


It rained the whole time we were in New York, which is actually quite lovely when you're from arid climes like ours (though I feel kind of silly saying that today, three days into nonstop, torrential rains—unheard of in Colorado). Luckily I was able to find Sidamo the raingear of his dreams at Century 21:


And it was quite fitting, since the NYFD was the highlight of Sidamo's trip. One day while I was working, Greg and Meaghan took the boys to the park. As they were walking there, they passed a fire truck. The fireman, seeing the wonderment in George and Sidamo's eyes, invited them in. He even pulled out some helmets for them to wear and let them turn on the lights. Hea. Ven.


On the next block, and on top of the world, Sidamo saw a parked ambulance. He shouted, "I want to get in that one!" To which Greg replied, "Nice try buddy, but you can't just get in every emergency vehicle you pass." To which the ambulance driver replied, "I heard that. Get in!"


Seriously, he has reached his pinnacle. You might as well give up now, Damo, because it's not gonna get any better than this. The park lacked a certain luster after such adventure.


Another day they all went to the Natural History Museum while I worked.

It was all fun and games until Sidamo saw the whale, and then the joke was over. I think his fear of underwater creatures might trace back to the 3D Under the Sea movie Greg took him to a few months ago. Or it could just be that whales are freaking huge.


A wonderful trip all around. Lots of good work done, and lots of good family and friend time to boot. We often come home from our New York trips thinking, "Hey, why don't we live there?" But then we remember that on our salaries (make that, salary) New York would look very different. And then I take the kiddos for a walk to our local park, in the (usually) dry spring warmth, and point out about 100 different flower varieties to Sidamo and Nora on our way, and I remember that I really do love it here in our small-city, big-mountain world.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

11 months





Yikes! How does this keep happening? I blink, and baby girl is another month older. In the past month she has cut her first tooth (finally!), gotten much more steady on her feet, and continued to assert her dominance over the household. And in good news (I'm going to whisper this part) she seems to be figuring out the sleep thing. I'll just leave it at that so as not to jinx anything.

I'm starting to think about her first birthday, which seems entirely impossible. Wasn't it just minutes ago that I was lamenting the fact that she had overstayed her intrauterine welcome? In fact, didn't I just take this photo, like, last week?


Slow down, baby girl. This time is too precious to just race through the way you're doing.

But speaking of birthdays, what should I do for her first birthday cake? For Sidamo's first birthday with us, it was a no-brainer: FIRETRUCK! But Nora's passions are a little less defined at this point. Well, except for that one thing (or those two things, I guess), and Greg has already suggested it. Luckily this place is not too far away.

Would that be setting a bad kid's birthday party precedent? Would we write ourselves out of the birthday circuit forever?

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

The culinary lives of ants




Sidamo: Mommy, what do ants like to eat?

Me: Umm, I think they eat crumbs of food and stuff.

Sidamo: No.

Me: Oh, no? Well then what do they like to eat?

Sidamo: I think colors [his word for M&Ms] and hamsters.

In case you were wondering.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Trashman

In the car with Sidamo the other day, we passed a garbage truck.

Sidamo: Is that a garbage truck?

Me: Yes.

Sidamo: It drives around and picks up garbage?

Me: Yes.

Sidamo, after a long, thoughtful pause: I have a garbage tricycle.

Saturday, April 25, 2009

10 months (and thensome)


Nora is in the double-digits; her mama is in shock. I've officially become the woman who harasses mothers of newborns exclaiming, "I can't believe my baby was ever that small!" And then going on and on about how, no really, it was just yesterday that Nora was that tiny. And they look at me the way I looked at moms of 10-month-olds when Nora actually was that tiny—like, "You're not even in my league anymore, lady. My baby is a tiny, innocent, perfect little newborn. Your kid is a teenager, already corrupted by the world. She's probably smoking pot in her crib."


This month has brought increased mobility and speed, and, subsequently, lots of bruises on the forehead. I try to help her avoid falls, but there's only so much you can do. Hey, she's developing her resiliency, right?


The jabbering is picking up a lot, and her language comprehension is improving noticeably. She knows who mama, dada, and Damo are, and she also dances when she hears the word dance, or the sound of the coffee grinder. She waves goodbye when she hears bye-bye. I'm working hard on training her on some more tricks.


She hates hats and sunglasses. Rephrase: She hates sunglasses on her face and hats on her head. Either one in her mouth is A-OK.

She's crawling on her knees more, especially when she's on carpet. On hardwoods she still does the army crawl. She can finally sit on her own, which was a long time coming. It wasn't that she couldn't sit until now, exactly, but that she's so intent on moving that she would throw herself backwards to get into a mobile position. Now she's figured out how to go from seated to crawling, so she's now allowed to sit without wearing a helmet.



She continues to adore her big brother, and he is so, so sweet with her. He helps her, watches out for her, and tries (almost always successfully) to make her laugh. It's really fun to watch their relationship develop, and I wonder how it will be when Nora is able to keep up with Sidamo (and compete with him for toys).

Norasaur, you're my sweet little toothless beauty, and I adore every teensy bit of you.




Wednesday, April 22, 2009

She's here!


After months of really, really hard work on the part of very many talented friends and colleagues (and, OK, myself too), I'm proud to introduce you to Mindful Mama. Say hello. Ooh and aah a bit. Tell me you love it. Please. (And if that's true, share it with all your friends!)

There's so much I love about the site—hubris, I know—but here are some of my favorite features:
  • Julie's article, The Weight of the Weight, which poignantly describes what it's like to be waiting … and waiting, and waiting to become a parent.
  • Melissa's 30-Day Healthy Home Challenge. Some are things I do already, some are things I should do, all are things I'm committing to for the next 30 days. You?
  • Mindy's Urban Agriculture article. If this doesn't convince Greg to say yes to my flock of hens and pair of goats, I don't know what will.
  • The Mindful Mama Community. I'm a big fan of the content portion of the site, of course, but this is where the real fun lies. The Mindful Mama Community is so much more than just forums or discussions like you find on other parenting sites. This is a place to blog, to host photos and videos, to connect with mama friends, to microblog (a la Facebook or Twitter) about stuff you'd never post on Facebook or Twitter. There are still some glitches in this portion of the site, but it's 95% of the way there, and it's fun to start playing around and getting oriented.
Okay, enough gushing. I hope you'll visit the site, and I hope you'll find it to be the inspiring, welcoming community and resource it's designed to be. And of course, if you have any ideas for improvement I'm all ears!